Excerpt from Connie's essay in DESIRE:

Women Write About Wanting

It's Tuesday night, I'm in bed with Regular Guy, and I already know what's for dinner. Meat. Potatoes. Meat. Potatoes. The head of his penis prods me in a familiar, been-together-long-enough-to-know-all-the-right-moves way as I raise my hips to meet it. Safe sex served medium-well in predictable portions satisfied me for a long time, but lately my mouth is set for rarer delicacies.

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